Husband and I finally met with a lawyer yesterday to discuss our will.
Oddly enough, I did not find it that disturbing to think about John and I dying. (spectacularly!) We had discussed previously who we would want to parent Miss D and were on the same page for who should execute our estate.
What I didn't think about was planning for what would happen if all 3 of us died. Of course, the thought of anything happening to Miss D is enough to cause me a heart attack anyway...The thought of all of us suddenly disappearing off the earth made me sad for our survivors, although you know it happens to families all the time.
I wonder if it's any consolation to the surviving relatives to know that they all went together, or if they wish they had at least one left to hold on to?